You guys missed a huge one
it's time for the REAL experts to weigh in - Dan and Phil Rank Every Gay Ship piped.video/iY2xi2AE2s8
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this technique works so well you can't even imagine. wreckers are used to getting their way and their egos can't withstand any type correction - even if they haven't broken any rules yet, the meltdown that follows a polite request like this will see them out. even just ignoring their acting out can cause them to self-remove. and it's fail-safe because actually well-meaning people won't be affected. be warned: they will attempt to beat you over the head with social justice language jargon. don't fall for it, and call it what it is - the language of care used as a weapon. it contains zero care. if their behavior is indistinguishable from COINTELPRO, you have an obligation to the group/space/whatever to treat them as a hostile agent not everyone who says they want to build the house can be trusted with a hammer
One of the easiest ways to push out wreckers is just to tell them "sorry, around here we express our disagreements with respect. If you can't practice respect, then you need to take your disagreement elsewhere." They self-destruct or leave nearly 100% of the time.
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What we need is a left that is patient, kind, and articulate in describing its position. We need radicals who start by finding points of agreement, then persuade people to radical positions through rationality and evidence rather than moral indignation and bullying.
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i gotta say this is quite cathartic
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no offense but this both corroborates the article and makes the owner look like even more of a victim of community abuse and bullying
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leftists are so frustrating the article very clearly tried to save this bar and portrayed it as an important queer space in a small town
Statement on Boston Globe article targeting Last Ditch bar in Greenfield (1/2)
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i would shut down the library once a week to allow lesbians to gather and share art and perform. my library also has narcan, access to internet, a food pantry, free snacks, community resources, etc. that’s what these people should be doing rather than an “anti-profit business”
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competitive leftism is a scourge on the working class
i was pushed out, along with multiple others, of union organizing at a progressive school bc of an interpersonal conflict that started with someone calling me racist bc i got rlly high and said that i thought the barbie movie was good
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man i can’t even feel bad for them anymore they’re supporting this persons grift while insulting the journalist who garnered them sympathy. like yes u can say it’s wrong to threaten and dox ppl but no spine
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i was pushed out, along with multiple others, of union organizing at a progressive school bc of an interpersonal conflict that started with someone calling me racist bc i got rlly high and said that i thought the barbie movie was good
I think that socialist/communist spaces really do suffer from letting radical liberals come into them and set the rules. Mass politics is an anathema to radlibs and individualist narcissism ends up being framed as somehow revolutionary when it is actual poison to movements.
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just saying the barbie movie is like a surface level take on feminism but i didn’t think that was a bad thing & i liked the existential feminism woven into the story. and bc i didn’t violently hate the movie or rip it apart i got ostracized.
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not even done and the boston globe article about the lesbian bar and masking requirements might be one of the best articles ever
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i hope my therapist is aware of this
Mentioned covid-conscious lesbian bar to my therapist and she said “You’re the second person to bring it up today.”
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There is a concept in organizing called the "tyranny of the annoying". You need to set-up ground rules and enforce them viciously. If you let anti-social people come in and soapbox, they will destroy the thing you are trying to build.
I think that socialist/communist spaces really do suffer from letting radical liberals come into them and set the rules. Mass politics is an anathema to radlibs and individualist narcissism ends up being framed as somehow revolutionary when it is actual poison to movements.
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I know this whole article is objectively hilarious, but there’s something genuinely sad about how many queer-owned businesses and community spaces have been driven to close by their own communities. There’s so much self-righteousness in these spaces, and so little room for people to make mistakes, learn, and do better. I would much rather support a community-owned business that is genuinely trying to navigate what ethics look like in an imperfect system than watch them disappear and be replaced by another soulless private equity smash burger spot.
A lesbian bar in Greenfield eased its stringent mask mandate, a decision that has splintered the queer community in the city and beyond. trib.al/FyZjBWs
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content on their ig is even better where they imply this lesbian bar is no different than mcdonald’s and villainizes business owners for trying to run their business like a business instead of endlessly experiencing debt and eventually just closing
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i get it to an extent. this is why i became a librarian, bc i want things to be free and accessible. but businesses aren’t where thats going to happen, bc they will just close. bars are community hubs but not in the same way that libraries or non profits are
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i think these people should run like a 501c3 craft space and not a lesbian bar
Everyone is sharing their favorite passages from this insane article. I laughed out loud at this one.
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Breaking: Further testing today revealed Giants QB Jaxson Dart’s knee injury is worse than initially thought, and the team and Dart now are facing the possibility of season-ending knee surgery, sources tell ESPN. Of all the QB injuries suffered in Week 2, Dart’s is turning out to easily be the most significant.
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BREAKING: The Mets have named Andy Green their full-time manager He has signed a three-year deal with the club
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