Some of you are like this.
It's fixable, but you have to want to fix it.
You have to want new information, you have to decide you want to listen.
you are going to meet people, you are going to have people in your life, who are only an outbox. they only send things out. they are not internalizing your “mail”. they do not use the inbox setting. you cannot make them active the inbox. there is no way to force them to do it.