On Saturday, my account @seashell_luvr was hacked and I was locked out. Appeals are auto-rejected because the hacker changed my email/phone. Other accounts are facing the same issue. Hoping for a human review before everything is erased. I can provide proof. @NikitaBier

kind of crazy how brutal a mog this is.

Non smetterò mai di ripeterlo: questa è una delle frasi più belle della letteratura, se non la più bella in assoluto (da 𝘈𝘯𝘯𝘢 𝘒𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘢). «Scese, evitando di guardarla a lungo, come si fa col sole; ma vedeva lei, come si vede il sole, anche senza guardare.»

your gf is not beautiful in your eyes. she might be the undisputed miss universe of all the nations, yet you don’t find her beautiful. you think you do. you think that beauty is a matter of facial symmetry. you think that beauty’s jurisdiction is the “outside.” my God, how much you’re missing. have you ever tried to see her from the “inside out”? have you ever started with character and THEN let that illumine the outside? no. that’s why what beauty you think you see is but a billionth of the real thing. fleeting dust. and the problem is that you built your whole relationship on the billionth. let her age one morning and all of a sudden you don’t wanna continue. and you wonder why promiscuity is rampant in society? start again. but right.

The essence of darkness is not necessarily pain, the essence of darkness is the unknown

Ashlesha:

and this is why we’re also allowed to be mad at the ‘other woman’ when someone cheats, by the way. sure, sometimes they don’t know. but sometimes they DO know. and they go on to help said man do terrible things to other women. put her under the jail.

And it can be the opposite too. A lot of “baddies” who have cultivated their own style and sex appeal, already received affirmation for their beauty from a young age, or otherwise fairly confident and self-aware of being sexy have an integrity to their presence (less “leaky”) and sense of sexual responsibility and impact (though not necessarily virgins or less sexual ofc)

Oh, you like goth women? You say you find darkness sexy? Why don’t you be present with a woman’s emotional complexity and learn to tolerate life’s mysteries and ambiguities instead of begging for CBT and “step on me mommy” for the hundredth time

Let Libra season remind you that beauty is not shallow, although it can be yes but I mean it’s more often a spark for an emotional revelation or ignition point for inspiration. It asks the one witnessing to reach for greatness, excavate their depths, move closer to God

Desire is very hot. People want very badly to be desired. Your shame of desire turns your feelings inward making you whiny, clingy, desperate, evasive, and neurotic. Ick City Be comfortable with your desire and let it guide you. your sexual/romantic success will increase 10x

Diva down

Maybe it’s just me, but when a man does me wrong after me loving him right, I never feel embarrassed. My heart is pure and his isn’t. Why would a woman be embarrassed about his poor character.

when you anticipate disapproval from someone and you accommodate them, your anxiety immediately falls. this cycle is poison. let people remain mildly disappointed in you all the time.

Kind of over the weak infantilized woman narrative that's been circulating X this last year or so. I kind of bought into it and I do think it makes everything worse. Feeling agentic, empowered and autonomized is the only way to have optimal quality of life.

It’s Libra season and I prefer slightly disappointing everyone to a double life. #balance

The world has become desexed and suppressed, not too feminine. But it’s telling that people perceive these things as synonymous. Sometimes something has existed in an oppressed, distorted state for so long that its suppression and its nature become indistinguishable in people’s minds.

I don’t want to “mog”. I want to be beautiful in a way that makes everyone around me more beautiful, that illuminates everyone’s beauty and makes them aware of their own magic, like a sunset and its golden light.

I agree. The problem is that the yin vs the yang definitions of agentic are different, and when we tell women to be more agentic, that often means prescribing us more societally-default yang definitions of agentic, focused on doing more and achieving more (which honestly, both men and women could use less of). When people tell women to be more agentic and accountable, rarely does it have to do with being discerning, cultivating backbone/strong moral code, having character/integrity, owning your decisions and taste, being in your power and responsible with that power.

I don’t trust those who are spread-too-thin spiritually.