There’s a lot of talk about SlutCon stuff and while I’ve never been to SlutCon, I have been to events Aella has thrown and all of them have been wonderful and safe. I don’t think you can have objective or even constructive public discussions about sex on the Nobody Has Sex app. I also think that starting sex conversations on this app leads to women being harassed and abused by the public rather than any sort of constructive conclusion. Women will always be blamed and burdened with all the responsibility of sex in the public sphere no matter how hard people try and disabuse themselves of their own biases. All public roads lead to slut shaming and I think folks know this but believe it’s okay for Aella to pay the cost of the abusive behavior. I don’t have an answer for how these conversations should take place but I will say that I never see anyone adjust the way they frame these conversations to protect women like Aella from the excessive abuses they know will arise.

Nine is not enough.

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I think that giving strangers this much access to me and my life has been wearing down my mental health slowly but surely. Tonight at 11pm I got a call from a 50 year old sweetie pie who went on to tell me one of my stalkers has been on her for 30 years and I’m feeling tapped out