Today is the day my little girl Beka Faison joins together as one with Mali. As I was considering this holy and sacred moment, I put a few thoughts down to send to Boo. She said I could share my thoughts with you:
Good morning Boo
Today, you become one with Mali, but you will never lose your identity. You are taking him as your partner for life, but he was never meant to be the source of your fulfillment.
Mali cannot make your house a home, your heart a home, or your presence a refuge. Only the Lord can do that.
Through the power of the Holy Spirit, you can become a refuge, a place of peace, and a resting place for your husband. As you draw your life, joy, and strength from Christ, those same gifts will naturally flow through you to Mali.
If you look to Mali to be the one who makes you happy, gives your soul rest, or fulfills every longing of your heart, you’ll always come up empty. God never intended for one person to carry what only He can provide.
Though the two of you become one, you still have your own identity, and that identity is found in the Lord. Your refuge, your joy, your peace, and your rest come first from Him to you, and then through you to your husband.
I love you with all my heart, and I bless you in the mighty name of Jesus.
May you experience a love deeper than you ever imagined possible. May you discover a joy that words cannot explain. May you soar through life with purpose, wisdom, and success. May you always remain humble, never forgetting the Giver of life, the Giver of love, the Way Maker, the Redeemer, and the Refuge of your soul.
I’m so proud of the woman you’ve become. Today is the beginning of a beautiful new chapter, and I can’t wait to watch all that God does in and through your marriage.
I love you forever.