The UK had a decent Mental Healthcare system from the early 2000s to the the early 2010s but it has been completely destroyed
There is essentially no Mental Healthcare support and the cost of this is FAR greater than the cost of providing it
I am fucking devastated.
My daughter is autistic. She has struggled with her mental health for years.
She was discharged from the local mental health team.
And what support was put in place to help her STAY WELL?
None.
Absolutely fucking none.
Her mental health has deteriorated badly again. Last night I was up into the early hours listening to and seeing my daughter in immense distress.
So I called 111 out of hours because I was desperately trying to get help.
And what was I told?
Ring back in the morning.
Why?
Because my daughter couldn't speak to them herself.
Let that sink in.
She couldn't speak because she was in crisis.
What the actual fuck are families supposed to do with that?
How are people supposed to access mental health services when the very reason they need help means they may not be able to communicate with the service asking them to communicate?
This is not support.
This is not prevention.
This is waiting for someone to fall apart and then wondering why they're in crisis.
My daughter deserved better.
She deserved someone to actually support her mental health. She deserved continuity. She deserved professionals who understood her autism and her needs. She deserved services working WITH her and WITH her family to keep her well.
Instead, once again, we have been left picking up the pieces.
And I'm fucking sick of it.
My daughter has spent two years battling silent demons.
We fought so hard to get her to a better place.
And now?
We're back at square one.
And I am terrified about what comes next.
Because when services fail to support my daughter, it isn't just her who suffers.
Our whole family suffers.
And once again we face the possibility of being dragged through the courts when what my daughter actually needs is proper mental health support.
So I'm asking the question I've asked myself over and over again:
WHY THE FUCK DOES THE NHS KEEP LETTING PEOPLE LIKE MY DAUGHTER DOWN?
Why does support disappear when someone is discharged?
Why aren't autistic people with complex mental health needs supported to REMAIN WELL?
Why does it feel like services wait until someone is in absolute crisis before they take their mental health seriously?
Why do families have to scream, fight, complain and beg for help?
My daughter shouldn't have to become desperately unwell before somebody decides she is unwell enough to deserve help.
She deserved to be well.
She deserved to stay well.
She deserved better.
And today, I'm fucking heartbroken that once again, the system has failed her.