I wanna talk about something I think most of us struggle to accept.
I genuinely believe you can love someone deeply and still find yourself attracted to or having desires for someone else. Loving one person doesn’t automatically mean you stop finding other people attractive.
But I think we need to understand the difference between desire and betrayal. Having feelings or desires for someone else doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being unfaithful. Desire is something you feel, while betrayal happens when you choose to act in ways that break the trust and boundaries of your relationship.
There’s a difference between love, desire, and commitment. You might not always have control over what you feel, but you do have control over what you choose to do with those feelings.
Do you think genuinely loving someone means you should never desire anyone else?