Getting married in Afghanistan is like playing a rigged lottery. The outcomes range from bad to worse to the absolute worst.
You don't know your future husband. You've never seen him, spoken to him, or learned anything about him. Then a forced Nikah (Islamic marriage contract) takes place, and by the second or third night of your marriage, you discover whether you've drawn a bad, worse, or absolutely terrible outcome in this lottery.
This is the reality.
Girls here cannot choose their husbands. We have neither the right to choose nor the freedom to make our own decisions.
This is Islam.